As our bachelor life is coming to an end, I heard some murmur going on in our CR’s room. I felt really curious and thought to myself, “What exactly is it about?” later on I came to know what was happening. To my amazement, our CR was getting married. Come to think of it, even Tejas and Mahavir’s family had the same plan in store for them.
Amidst of this marriage season, I was alone in my room with nothing but thought’s about my future life partner sprouting in my mind. Since my rupa(of course biku bhai) was away, I got plenty of time to think about my future.
B. pharm is almost over so, what’s next?
After completion of this course, either I will go for Master’s degree or I will get a job and when my life is a bit secure, will find a girl and get married.
Have we ever asked ourselves, “How should our life partner be?” I mean what is an ideal partner like? Is it all about looks, beauty? Or is it about something else? Is it necessary for her to be like Cinderella? She is really beautiful (at least that’s what fairy tale tells us!!) but life is not a fairy tale my friends (hehehe… I haven’t really seen Cinderella so can’t be sure about her looks. Can you?)
In context, to this I would like share a quote often used by my friend Achyut Regmi,
‘Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder’.
Here, I took the pleasure of sorting out some of the criteria or qualities my girl, my life partner, my heartbeat (whatever you may call) should have.
Everyone wants a beautiful girl (sorry if you don’t come under that ‘everyone’ haha).
My wants are no different than everyone else’s. She should be a beautiful girl (by beautiful I mean inside as in her mind and out), with a loving heart. In my solitude, I tried to define the adjective ‘beautiful’ and relate it to the nouns ‘girl’ and ‘mind’.
Everyone longs for a girl with a good physique, fair complexion, slim with average height and beauty that can sweep one off his feet.
Suppose a guy gets a beautiful wife, do you think it’s enough? Well I don’t think so. For me, she has to be smart enough to understand me and knows how to deal with situations. She should be comfortable to share her thoughts with me. She should know how to treat people. Most of all she should have the ability to bind our family together. ‘PATIENCE’ you might be wondering “Why I highlighted that word?” well the answer is really simple. Patience is the key to happiness in any relationship. Despite these some other characteristics are impartial, affectionate, devoted, courageous, frugal, well-mannered, judicious, serene, health conscious, supportive, motivating, mature, blessed with culinary art, well educated and irrespective of her looks she should have a charming personality.
Nepali perspective of an ideal girl .
“Batis guna le yukta”
Meaning, blessed with 32 divine features. The above mentioned characters fall under this perspective including physical beauty.
Even though it’s quite impossible to find all the characteristics in one girl, she should possess the characteristics of a good wife.
Last and the most important, mutual understanding is immensely required for a happy life.
P.S. I wish the best for my friends to have a happy life ahead and hope you will get a beautiful wife. Whenever you are going through a rough time may she be there to hold your hand, caress your hair and say, “Dear, let’s face the problem together.”
B. pharm is almost over so, what’s next?
After completion of this course, either I will go for Master’s degree or I will get a job and when my life is a bit secure, will find a girl and get married.
Have we ever asked ourselves, “How should our life partner be?” I mean what is an ideal partner like? Is it all about looks, beauty? Or is it about something else? Is it necessary for her to be like Cinderella? She is really beautiful (at least that’s what fairy tale tells us!!) but life is not a fairy tale my friends (hehehe… I haven’t really seen Cinderella so can’t be sure about her looks. Can you?)
In context, to this I would like share a quote often used by my friend Achyut Regmi,
‘Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder’.
Here, I took the pleasure of sorting out some of the criteria or qualities my girl, my life partner, my heartbeat (whatever you may call) should have.
Everyone wants a beautiful girl (sorry if you don’t come under that ‘everyone’ haha).
My wants are no different than everyone else’s. She should be a beautiful girl (by beautiful I mean inside as in her mind and out), with a loving heart. In my solitude, I tried to define the adjective ‘beautiful’ and relate it to the nouns ‘girl’ and ‘mind’.
Everyone longs for a girl with a good physique, fair complexion, slim with average height and beauty that can sweep one off his feet.
Suppose a guy gets a beautiful wife, do you think it’s enough? Well I don’t think so. For me, she has to be smart enough to understand me and knows how to deal with situations. She should be comfortable to share her thoughts with me. She should know how to treat people. Most of all she should have the ability to bind our family together. ‘PATIENCE’ you might be wondering “Why I highlighted that word?” well the answer is really simple. Patience is the key to happiness in any relationship. Despite these some other characteristics are impartial, affectionate, devoted, courageous, frugal, well-mannered, judicious, serene, health conscious, supportive, motivating, mature, blessed with culinary art, well educated and irrespective of her looks she should have a charming personality.
Nepali perspective of an ideal girl .
“Batis guna le yukta”
Meaning, blessed with 32 divine features. The above mentioned characters fall under this perspective including physical beauty.
Even though it’s quite impossible to find all the characteristics in one girl, she should possess the characteristics of a good wife.
Last and the most important, mutual understanding is immensely required for a happy life.
P.S. I wish the best for my friends to have a happy life ahead and hope you will get a beautiful wife. Whenever you are going through a rough time may she be there to hold your hand, caress your hair and say, “Dear, let’s face the problem together.”
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